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The Netherlands' Surrogacy Bill Finally Has a Debate Date: 12 October 2026

Bill 36390 was submitted in July 2023. On 12 October 2026 it finally reaches a full parliamentary debate — the first time intended parents, surrogates and donor-conceived children would get dedicated Dutch surrogacy law.

The Hague, Netherlands·21 September 2026

The Dutch bill Wet kind, draagmoederschap en afstamming (bill 36390) — which would create a formal legal framework for surrogacy in the Netherlands for the first time — is scheduled for its plenary parliamentary debate on 12 October 2026, more than three years after it was submitted in July 2023. The bill would let a judge assign legal parenthood to intended parents before the surrogate is even pregnant, instead of today's rule where the surrogate is automatically the child's legal mother regardless of genetics, and it would add a formal recognition procedure for parenthood established through surrogacy arranged abroad. It has not passed yet — 12 October is a debate, not a final vote — and legal experts are already on record saying the current draft still leaves real gaps in oversight and in surrogates' protection.

The facts, in short
Bill
Wet kind, draagmoederschap en afstamming (bill 36390)
Submitted
4 July 2023, by Minister for Legal Protection Franc Weerwind (D66)
Committee debate
12 March 2025
Plenary debate scheduled
12 October 2026
Current Dutch surrogacy law
Commercial surrogacy is a criminal offense; altruistic surrogacy is tolerated but has no dedicated legal framework
Responsible committee
Vaste commissie voor Justitie en Veiligheid (Standing Committee on Justice and Security)

What happened

Bill 36390 has been sitting in the Dutch parliament since July 2023. It cleared a committee debate in March 2025, after which the committee asked for a formal scientific review before going any further. That review is done, and the bill now has a real date: a plenary debate on 12 October 2026.

This isn't a small procedural update. It's the first realistic chance in years that the Netherlands gets dedicated surrogacy legislation — something intended parents, surrogates and fertility lawyers have been asking for since well before this bill was drafted.

What the bill would actually change

Today, under Dutch civil law, the woman who gives birth is always the child's legal mother — even in a surrogacy arrangement, and even when the intended mother's own egg was used. Intended parents currently need a separate court procedure after the birth to become legal parents, regardless of genetics.

The bill would let a judge assign legal parenthood to the intended parents before the surrogate is even pregnant, replacing that after-the-fact scramble with a decision made in advance, with everyone's consent on record.

It also adds something the Netherlands doesn't have today: a formal procedure for recognizing parenthood established through surrogacy arranged abroad. That directly targets the specific practical trap Dutch intended parents run into now — a Dutch consulate can refuse to issue a child born via international surrogacy a passport or travel document until parentage is sorted out, which has delayed some families' return home by many months.

Not everyone thinks it goes far enough

Legal experts writing in the Nederlands Juristenblad, the country's main legal-affairs journal, have flagged three specific gaps in the current draft.

First, oversight: the bill removes the Child Protection Council (Raad voor de Kinderbescherming) from its current monitoring role, and sets no compensation limits for surrogacy arranged abroad — precisely where enforcement is hardest.

Second, timing: the bill's judicial review happens before the pregnancy starts, but the disputes that actually happen — disagreement between a surrogate and intended parents over whether to end a pregnancy after an abnormal ultrasound, for instance — happen during or after it. A one-time approval before conception doesn't cover that.

Third, and directly undercutting the bill's own stated goal: some surrogates travel abroad specifically to use anonymous donors, which would leave the resulting child without the ancestry information the bill is supposed to guarantee them. The Netherlands banned anonymous donation domestically in 2004 precisely to prevent this kind of gap — critics argue the bill needs to close the same loophole for surrogacy.

What this means if you're already planning a surrogacy journey

Nothing changes yet. 12 October is a debate, not a vote, and the bill can still be amended before — or after — it passes. If you're currently working through an international surrogacy program, the guidance in our Netherlands surrogacy guide still applies exactly as written: plan the post-birth Dutch recognition procedure and passport paperwork before the birth, not after.

What's worth watching is what actually happens on and after 12 October — whether the bill passes broadly as drafted, gets amended along the lines critics are asking for, or stalls again. We'll follow up once there's a real outcome to report.

Why this matters
  • A debate date is progress, not a finish lineThree years from submission to a first plenary debate is normal for family law reform, not unusually slow — but a scheduled debate is meaningfully different from a bill quietly stalled in committee, which is where this one has spent most of its life so far.
  • The child's right to know their origins keeps showing up as the sticking pointThe strongest criticism of this bill — that surrogates using anonymous donors abroad could leave a child without ancestry information — is the same principle the Netherlands already enforces for ordinary donor conception, and the same one driving recent reforms elsewhere (Quebec's donor-conceived registry, among others). It's becoming the baseline test any new family-building law gets measured against.
  • This directly affects the practical playbook, once it passesThe pre-pregnancy parenthood assignment would remove the single biggest source of delay and uncertainty in the current process — the post-birth scramble to establish legal parenthood. Until it's actually in force, though, that scramble is still the reality.
  • Even the organizations pushing for this bill say it needs workMeer dan Gewenst — the Dutch rainbow-parenthood foundation, listed in our own directory — has publicly welcomed the coalition agreement's commitment to surrogacy legislation while continuing to push for stronger protections. Support for the bill's existence and criticism of its current details aren't in tension; both are coming from the same advocates.

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